Friday, October 14, 2011

How Reading Books Saved My Life by John Chukwuma Anyasor

When most people hear the word ‘read’, or ‘library’, or ‘book’, three signals usually go off in their minds:
1) Boring
2) Boring
Or my personal favorite:
3) Who reads books anymore? I have a Kindle for that.
I think reading books has taken a backseat to other more popular forms of media (television, film, radio, and the internet).
Technology has come so far, in fact, that some us believe there’s no longer a point in reading books. I could just wait until the movie comes out, right?
What’s more, reading books may have taken a backseat to life itself.
These days, there’s too much going on in your life for you to pick up a good read. There’s just no time to read books. I’m too busy. I have a job to work, and kids to feed.
Big mistake
Let me tell you something – not reading books may be the worst mistake you could ever make. So much so in fact, that it could be life-threatening. Not a matter of life and death mind you, but a matter of just leisurely going through life and really living life to the fullest.
Let me explain.
The majority of people’s lives in a nutshell
You can go through life watching the local news, pretending to care about wars in other countries, tweeting to all your friends about your weekend, and remain in your little bubble. Anyone outside that reality wouldn’t notice you – and you wouldn’t notice them.
But when you pick up a book, you step outside your normal, everyday life. It’s not just about technology, reality TV, and work. You step into someone else’s world, experiencing their thoughts and their feelings.
I’ve read plenty of books that have moved me nearly to tears (at most, I got choked up a bit), and I’ve read books that I’ve laughed and laughed with.
I’ve read stories of romance that made me want to find my true love. I’ve read tales of adventure, endurance, and discovery that made me want to explore.
You’re not alone
Reading books has taught me that there are so many people in the world – each with their one unique story. I once believed that my story sucked. I mean, who would want to know about me?
It’s funny, because that’s what every author thinks before they publish their first book. Will they like what I write? Will people care? Can they relate? Does it matter that I’m (from whatever country, part of whatever ethnic group, and have whatever disability)?
And when the authors see people avidly reading their books, they realize that people can relate to them. Just like when you pick up a good book, you think to yourself, “Wow, I totally get what the author’s saying.”
You too have a story
Even outside the scope of books, most people think their own stories suck. Most of us read masterpieces written by those who have faced hardship and overcame it in an inspiring way, and wish we were like them.
What you don’t know is that the best stories are the ones that you yourself can truly connect with. As you read, you’re feeling the exact same feelings as the author.
Living life to the fullest entails experiencing as much of it as possible. Experience the pain of others, know their happiness, and feel their joy. Books give you the power to experience. For without books, how would we know the stories of others?
You could read blogs, but they’re not as in-depth as an entire book. You could watch someone document their life on video, but you can’t get a truly honest glimpse into their psyche.
Books serve to connect people’s thoughts, and that’s the deepest connection there is.
In a way, books have saved my life. They’ve shown me that I, too, have a story people want to hear. I’m not just another book on a rack – I am a bestseller.
Books can save your life as well. You, too, have a story people want to hear. You’re not just another book on a rack – you are a bestseller.
“Reading makes immigrants of us all. It takes us away from home, but more importantly, it finds homes for us everywhere.” – Jean Rhys

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Nov 20th, 1:00pm Anniversary Book Club Meeting


Ladies we will be celebrating our 1 year anniversary at Aura Spa in Hoboken NJ. Below are just a few of the 30 min Pick me Up treatment the spa offers for only $55 each.

30-min PICK-ME-UPs
$55 per treatment

Face or Eye Refresher
This is a quick face or eye treatment to brighten fatigued face or de-puff stressed eye bags. The instant rise-and-shine radiant booster for your face!

Back Booster Massage
Our suave back-relief technique is guaranteed to un-kink the knots and strain you’ve been feeling on your back!

Scalp-Neck-Shoulder Relaxer
This is an ultra relaxing massage that follows the meridian points of your body to help release tension and allow better circulation of blood.

Foot Energizer
Our foot reflexology will leave your feet feeling peppy and light as a feather!

Check out the link and let me know what treatment you would like to request, I will then e-mail the spa and set out our appointments you will then call and provide them with a credit card to hold your individual appointments.

We can all get Mani & Pedis or full body treatments. All clients with services on the lower level (facials, massages, and body treatments) are welcome to use the Far-Infrared Radiant Heat Sauna, free of charge.
Aura Spa
 70 Hudson Street, Hoboken NJ
201-656-0002
Aura spa is a half a block away from the Hoboken Path\Lightrail\bus and transit station.

Check out the New Kindle's from Amazon

Amazon has put out some great new products for those of you who arn't reading on e-readers. Here are some of the basic facts.....Prices starting at only $79 put it on your Christmas list.

Less then 6 ounces, lighter than a paper back book
Most advanced E Ink Display
Read in Sunlight
Book downloads in 60 seconds
Adjustable text sizes

New one month Battery Life: A single charge lasts up to one month with wireless off based upon a half-hour of daily reading time. Keep wireless always on and it lasts for up to 3 weeks. Battery life will vary based on wireless usage, such as shopping the Kindle Store, web browsing, and downloading content.

And now you can borrow books from your public library too.

http://www.amazon.com/

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Book suggestion: Please look after Mom by Kyung-Sook Shin

There is a simple, yet remarkable, scene in Kyung-sook Shin’s novel, Please Look After Mom, where the book’s title character visits her adult son in Seoul.  He lives in a duty office in the building where he works, because he can't afford an apartment. At night, they sleep on the floor and she offers to lie next to the wall to shield him from a draft.  “I can fall asleep better if I’m next to the wall,” she says.  And with this gesture, we catch a glimpse of the depth of love she has for her first-born and the duty-bound sacrifices she’s made on behalf her family.

Please Look After Mom is the story of a mother, and her family’s search for her after she goes missing in a crowded train station, told through four richly imagined voices:  her daughter’s, her oldest son’s, her husband’s, and finally her own.  Each chapter adds a layer to the story’s depth and complexity, until we are left with an indelible portrait of a woman whose entire identity, despite her secret desires, is tied up in her children and the heartbreaking loss that is felt when family bonds loosen over time.

Kyung-sook Shin’s elegantly spare prose is a joy to read, but it is the quiet interstitial space between her words, where our own remembrances and regrets are allowed to seep in, that convicts each one of us to our core.

Monday, September 26, 2011

book suggestion: The Devil in a white city by Erik Larson

Not long after Jack the Ripper haunted the ill-lit streets of 1888 London, H.H. Holmes dispatched somewhere between 27 and 200 people, mostly single young women, in the churning new metropolis of Chicago; many of the murders occurred during the city's finest moment, the World's Fair of 1893. Larson's breathtaking new history is a novelistic yet wholly factual account of the fair and the mass murderer who lurked within it.

This is, in effect, the nonfiction Alienist, or a sort of companion, which might be called Homicide, to Emile Durkheim's Suicide. However, rather than anomie, Larson is most interested in industriousness and the new opportunities for mayhem afforded by the advent of widespread public anonymity.

book suggestion: The Tiger's Wife by Tea Obreht

Drawing on the former Yugoslavia's fabled past and recent bloodshed, Belgrade-born Obreht portrays two besieged doctors. Natalia is on an ill-advised "good will" medical mission at an orphanage on what is suddenly the "other side," now that war has broken out, when she learns that her grandfather, a distinguished doctor forced out of his practice by ethnic divides, has died far from home. She is beset by memories, particularly of her grandfather taking her to the zoo to see the tigers.

We learn the source of his fascination in mesmerizing flashbacks, meeting the village butcher, the deaf-mute Muslim woman he married, and a tiger who escaped the city zoo after it was bombed by the Germans. Of equal mythic mystery is the story of the "deathless man." Moments of breathtaking magic, wildness, and beauty are paired with chilling episodes in which superstition overrides reason; fear and hatred smother compassion; and inexplicable horror rules.

352 pages

please let me know if you have read